Are you feeling unaligned, is it making you you feel off? Did you know balance of your divine feminie and masculine energies play an important role is our everday lives. Having a misalignment in the balance of our energies affects us in so many ways. We don’t feel like ourselves, we experience less joy, we get out of touch with pleasure and our relationships can start to feel off balance too.


So how do we steer ourselves back onto the right path and get harmonized again?


Step 1 is to understand where you are at. Which way are the scales tipping? Here are a few characteristics of each energy to help you assess where you sit today.


Masculine energy:

  • Action oriented
  • Competitive
  • Cognitive
  • Direct
  • Problem solving
  • Risk taking


Feminine energy:

  • Intuitive
  • Receptive
  • Collaborative
  • Creative
  • Empathy
  • Flow
  • Sensuality


Often we can find ourselves slipping away from that feminine energy as we come up against
things at work, at home and in life that force a perceived need for the masculine. But letting that feminine go can be problematic in the long run. The divine feminine is given to us so we can live a life of flow, ease and grace. Stepping too far into the masculine can mean we are making things harder than they need to be.

If you need to get back in touch with your inner goddess and draw that divine feminine back out, it is time to get in touch with your sensuality! Take some time to remember what you enjoy, to feel pleasure, to connect with your root chakra and get grounded again. Meditate, be mindful and fully present with yourself and explore your body and spirit the way it deserves. Incorporate a crystal yoni egg or wand that meets the desires you are trying to reclaim, such as lavender jadeite for self acceptance or obsidian for clarity, and dedicate yourself to strengthening that connection between mind, body and soul. Sexuality is still highly underestimated in caring for the divine feminine but it is so important. Being sensual and sexual in a way that nurtures your inner goddess and divine feminine energy is not something that has to be done with a partner. In fact, if you really want to deep dive into caring for her, devoting time to solo experiences can be even better! Understanding your energy and keeping it on the path that best serves you starts with you.

Creating and maintaining a balance between the divine feminine and the masculine is an ongoing practice, but one that is worth committing to for a life of pure bliss.

January 11, 2018 — A J